Never owned an automatic (or a vehicle this heavy) before my CX-30, but my understanding is that they tend to wear out brakes faster even when you are actively minimizing their use by anticipating stops ahead of you & taking your foot off the gas accordingly to passively reduce speed & thus braking workload when time to use them. Using sports mode does offer up more natural engine braking than regular mode also I have noticed, when taking your foot off the gas when you anticipate a stop coming up ahead, since your vehicle tends to stay in lower gears longer & passively slows down faster (without braking) when you take your foot off the gas. It's much easier to minimize braking use with a manual though via appropriate downshifting as needed, & none of the dozen of so manual vehicles that I drove over the years before my CX-30 needed new brakes before the 90-100K mile mark. When I traded in my little lightweight 2015 Yaris SE hatch 5-MT back in late 2019 at 60K miles, it still had over 3/4 brake pad life left.
Some automakers do build better brake systems than others in terms of longevity of brake pads & such, but aggressive driving + stopping habits can definitely result in almost any brakes needing replacement every 20-30K miles. From observing all the "in a hurry" & non-anticipating "autopilot" drivers on the road & how they drive, I would say most actually fall into the that severe use category or close to it for brakes, transmission & more.
Plus, it also ultimately depends on whether you drive a lot of stop & go miles, requiring constant brake use, or driving lots of open highway miles where you don't hardly use your brakes much, on top of everything else.